695 Shane Parrish on Wisdom from Warren Buffett, Rules for Better Thinking, How to Reduce Blind Spots, The Dangers of Mental Models, and More

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In this excerpt, Tim Ferriss interviews Shane Parrish, who talks about his journey from being a straight-D student to becoming a self-made millionaire. Parrish attributes a large part of his success to luck, specifically a chance event that occurred when he was in grade eight. He and his friends were planning to break into somebody's house, but Parrish stayed home to finish reading a book called The Stopwatch Gang. This event made him realize that he could get in a lot of trouble if he wasn't careful. As a result, he became more cautious and started making better decisions that led him to where he is today.

In 1998, Shane Parrish was a student who had to work full-time, and he found a way to cheat on his physics assignments by paying a tutor for the answers. He was caught and got into trouble, which led him to be interested in books as a way to escape from his real life. In 2001, he was employed by an intelligence agency.

Shane Parrish was a student at a time when the rise of the internet was happening. He wanted to work for an intelligence agency because he thought it would be fun and he was patriotic. He ended up getting a job with them and worked on interesting problems.

Shane Parrish suggests that parents think about how moving around affects their kids when the kids are around grade seven or eight. He notes that it can be difficult for kids to adjust to new environments and make friends if they are constantly moving.

In this excerpt, Tim Ferriss interviews Shane Parrish on the topic of education. Parrish is a big believer that kids should be challenged in their schooling, and he sent his own kids to a school that was known for its high standards. His son struggled at first but ultimately loved being challenged. Parrish believes that the goal of education should be to produce independent adults who are capable of handling the ups and downs of life.

In his youth, Tim Ferriss went to an easy school until he transferred to a much more difficult one in high school. He found the workload at his new school to be incredibly challenging, but ultimately beneficial. He believes that today's schools are too easy and that children need to be taught that the world will not conform to their unique needs and preferences.

In this excerpt, Tim Ferriss and Shane Parrish discuss the importance of challenge and failure in developing time management and other skills. Parrish recounts his experience of being thrust into a leadership role after 9/11, and how he coped by studying those around him and getting an MBA. Ferriss reflects on his own experience of feeling behind and needing to develop time management skills in order to succeed. Together, they emphasize the importance of challenges and setbacks in developing the skills needed to succeed later in life.

Shane Parrish talks about his journey from working in the intelligence agency to becoming a successful blogger. He started a website where he reflected on his learning and development, which eventually garnered a large following. He attributes his success to his focus on quality over quantity, and his willingness to experiment and learn from his mistakes.

Cognitive biases can help explain why you made a mistake in the past, but they are not very effective at preventing you from making mistakes in the future. Shane Parrish believes that if you are smart, you can talk yourself out of cognitive biases. He also believes that ordinary moments determine your position, and your position determines your results.

Buffett has four or five rules that he follows to create a long-term, successful position - one of which is to always have dry powder. Parrish explains that this concept can be applied to many aspects of life, not just finance, and that it's important to think about the position you're in when making decisions.

Mental models allow us to see a problem through a different lens, and this can help us avoid cognitive biases. A great example of a mental model is thinking about how someone else would view the same situation. This can help us see the problem from a different perspective and make better decisions.

Shane Parrish discusses the importance of making decisions based on what you want to achieve, rather than avoiding negative outcomes. He also talks about the role of the Stoics in helping us to see problems from a different perspective. Finally, he explains how he has built his business on content and advice, and how this has helped him to reach a wider audience.

In this conversation, Tim Ferriss and Shane Parrish discuss the importance of scrutinizing the problem statement when making decisions. Parrish believes that the person making the decision should be the one to come up with the problem statement, in order to force them to really understand the problem and identify which solutions will work best. Ferriss gives an example of how this could be done in his own life, and the two discuss how this process can help avoid backfiring when making decisions.

The problem being addressed is one of security and scattered email platforms. The proposed solution is to centralize everything in one modern inbox, but this may not be the best solution. It is important to frame the problem correctly in order to find the best solution.

The problem with most brainstorming sessions is that people tend to just repeat the executive summary, which doesn't lead to any real progress. To avoid this, it's important to have a clear goal for the meeting (i.e. to define the problem) and to ask each person for their unique perspective on the problem. This allows for more productive brainstorming and ultimately leads to better solutions.

In this conversation, Tim Ferriss and Shane Parrish discuss the importance of creating automatic rules or policies in order to free up cognitive bandwidth and prevent decision fatigue. Ferriss shares examples of his own rules, such as working out every day and investing in an index fund every month, while Parrish shares the story of a friend who lost weight by following the rule of always ordering the healthiest thing on the menu.

In this conversation, Tim Ferriss and Shane Parrish discuss the importance of creating rules for yourself in order to stick to your goals. Ferriss shares that his father recently lost 50 pounds by following a simple rule from The 4-Hour Body: giving up his favorite foods for six days at a time. Parrish shares that he has a rule to work out every day, which has helped him stay healthy. They both encourage others to create their own specific rules in order to achieve their desired destination.

In this excerpt, Tim Ferriss talks about some of his self-imposed rules and how they help him stay on track. He batch-processes food so that he always has healthy meals ready to go, and he only says yes to speaking engagements that are either free or match his previous high watermark. He also has a rule that if anyone tries to rush him into a decision, the answer is always no.

Shane Parrish and Tim Ferriss discuss the importance of making sure that all deals are win-win for all parties involved. They also talk about how making decisions based on what is best for the long term can be more beneficial than making decisions based on what is best for the short term.

Shane Parrish is a high-trust person who believes that contracts are not necessary in business relationships. He has never used advertising contracts, but during COVID, this came back to bite him when some of his advertisers refused to pay their invoices. Parrish is also careful about the speaking engagements he accepts, only doing a few each year. If he had to double down on one thing, he would focus on building his email list.

In this excerpt, Shane Parrish and Tim Ferriss discuss Parrish's approach to creating content that is both useful and timeless. Parrish advises against spreading oneself too thin by trying to maintain a blog, podcast, and email newsletter simultaneously. Instead, he recommends focusing on creating the best content possible and then thinking about how to share it with people who will find it interesting.

In this interview, Tim Ferriss and Shane Parrish discuss the importance of focusing on evergreen or timeless content, rather than chasing the latest news cycle. They also talk about investing, with Parrish saying that he mostly invests in companies that are already making money or that he understands the path to profitability for.

Shane Parrish believes that it is better to be wrong and support a friend than to be right and not support them. He also believes that it is important to diversify one's investments, and that index investing can be a good way to do this. However, he has concerns about the impact that the rise of index funds may have on the markets.

In this excerpt, Tim Ferriss discusses his current investment strategy, which is focused on de-risking his portfolio and optimizing for sleep. He explains that he is moving his cash from growth positions into less complex areas that he feels he has an informational advantage in.

In this conversation, Tim Ferriss and Shane Parrish discuss the importance of making decisions based on what will improve your quality of life, rather than simply what will make you the most money. Ferriss shares an example of how he made a decision to leave his job at an intelligence agency in order to reduce stress in his life, even though it was not the most financially savvy move. Parrish agrees that sometimes the best decisions are not always the ones that make the most sense from a purely financial perspective.

In this excerpt, Tim Ferriss and Shane Parrish discuss the importance of making decisions and how to become better at it. Parrish suggests that people often make wrong decisions because they don't invest in the relationships they have. Ferriss agrees and adds that sometimes people try to take on too much at once and that it is helpful to look at decisions retroactively.

The position you're in when you make a decision is the biggest factor in whether or not you make a good decision. You need to be able to manage your emotions and focus on the outcome, not on proving yourself right. And you need to be able to think independently of the circumstances or the crowd. Writing is important because it helps you realize what you don't understand and generate new ideas.

In this conversation, Tim Ferriss and Shane Parrish discuss the importance of clear thinking and how to go about achieving it. They talk about the dangers of AI and how it can lead to humans losing important skills like the ability to navigate without Google Maps. They also discuss how writing can be used as a tool for learning to think. In the end, they encourage the audience to email Shane with their thoughts on the episode.

The author provides a summary of their blog post on podcasts, which includes a diagram of how to hunt down and listen to podcasts. They encourage readers to be kind to themselves and others.

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